OASIS programs provide a safe place in support of families impacted by a loved one’s substance use

Estrangement isn't always an all or nothing experience. In fact, there are many levels in-between, and even different types of estrangement:

Being on "good terms" with someone at family events and gatherings but noticing a slight change in how one feels. Communication is respectful and functional. You may not be especially close, but conversations are civil and cooperative. There’s room for everyday exchanges and occasional warmth.

Greater awareness of unhappiness in relationship; slowing down communication, not visiting as often. Communication becomes limited or one-sided. Texts or calls might go

unanswered or receive short, detached replies. Contact may occur only for holidays, major events, or practical reasons, with little emotional connection.

There is still communication, but it often feels tense, unpredictable, or painful. Interactions may include petty accusations, defensiveness, or intentional misunderstandings. The adult child or their spouse may react with hostility or refuse to take responsibility for hurtful behavior. Conversations tend to go in circles or end in conflict, leaving

the parent emotionally drained.

Proactively cutting attempts to communicate - could last for X amount of time.  The adult child clearly expresses a wish for no communication—or completely ignores messages and attempts to reconnect. There is no ongoing dialogue, though one or both parties may still hold hope for future reconciliation.

Loss of relationship, no communication or efforts being made; living life without this person. All contact has ended, and the relationship is fully cut off. There is no communication, no mutual expectation of change, and often a deep grieving process for the loss of the relationship as it once was.