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HEART to HEART: Serenity Retreat for Women Grieving a Loss from the Opioid Crisis

May 20-22, 2022

Tuscarora Inn and Conference Center

3300 River Road, Mt. Bethel, PA 18343


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2022 itinerary

Join us……Rest, Relax, Refresh…. together, Heart to Heart 💕

FRIDAY

Check-in  3:00 pm - 5:45 pm

Buffet Dinner  6:00pm

Welcome Gathering  7:15 pm 

Beading Hearts Remembrance  Activity 


SATURDAY

Chair Yoga with Tina (optional)  7:15 am

Breakfast    8:30 am

Gathering  10:00 am "Joanne's Journey"

Lunch  12:30 pm

Afternoon - Free Time

OPTIONAL ACTIVITIES 

  • Nature Heals: Reflective Walk along the Delaware River  
  • Healing Words: Affirmations and  Journaling workshop
  • Meditative Art: coloring/doodling workshop 
  • Chat with Joanne - Advocacy, Grand-families, or any other Q&A
  • Support with Rhonda:  Gathering of Leaders who work or volunteer for a Nonprofit, Advocacy organization, or Grief Group, serving communities impacted by substance use conditions
  • chair massage with Tiffany 

Dinner  5:30 pm

Gathering  7:00 pm "Moving Forward with Hope: Finding  a New Path"

Bonfire  9:15 pm "We Remember Them: Sharing Dreams and Memories"


SUNDAY

Chair Yoga with Tina (optional)  7:15 am 

Breakfast   8:30 am

Gathering ‘Self-Care for Serenity"    10:00 am

Supper  12:30 pm

Check-out  by 2:00 pm


**Do you play the piano or guitar, and/or like to sing? Please let us know!

We would love for you to share with us! 🎶 

how this retreat was born

Meet Rhonda

Thank you for your interest in our first Serenity Retreat!  ❤️ My name is Rhonda Miller, but I am best known here because I am Ben‘s (and Alex’s) mom. My journey began when my precious youngest son, Ben, was just 16, struggling with fitting in and finding his place in this world. Like many teens, he experimented, but when he was introduced to opioids, he was pulled in to a horrific addiction he was unable to control.  Throughout eight years, I lived the roller coaster of hope and grief.  I had very little support through those painful years; few could understand what I could not even understand. On August 1, 2016, one week before his 24th birthday, we tragically lost our precious Ben. The devastation (and the many secondary losses) have been very difficult to navigate alone.

Two years later, my family and I founded a nonprofit, Speak Up for Ben, Inc. to speak out and educate regarding the dangers of opioid use, and to offer support to those struggling and to their families. With the aid of Northampton County, we opened OASIS to help families throughout all the stages of grief experienced when a loved one lives with a substance use condition— and to offer compassionate support to families who lost their loved one.  This retreat is an extension of the grief support we offer.  While serving our families, I have obtained  professional  training to best  support our grief recovery. I have been credentialed by world renowned grief expert David Kessler as a Certified Grief Educator, and by the Grief Recovery Institute as a Certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist. Combined with my lived experience, these trainings have aided me tremendously in my mission to support our many grieving families. 


This retreat will be facilitated by your peers—bereaved women  who have lived experience in learning how to cope by finding meaning in building a new life. We are not clinicians, but sister travelers on this grief journey..... Surrounded by God’s love, and the friendship, support, and care of one another,  we learn we can gently restore our serenity, with every new day, …. We welcome you to join us… as we come together to love and heal, heart to heart. 💔❤️‍🩹 ❤️


2022 Guest speaker Joanne Clough

Meet Joanne

As a single mother of two daughters with a successful private family law practice, Joanne’s life was full.  Then, in 2013, she learned her oldest daughter, Emily, was struggling with an opioid addiction. Three years later Emily found out she was pregnant. Emily went on a drug maintenance program and delivered a healthy and beautiful baby girl, Carter. Emily was able to wean off medically assisted treatment, was doing very well maintaining her sobriety and was enjoying motherhood.  However, nine months after Carter was born, Emily relapsed and, tragically, died.


At the age of 59, Joanne found herself in the position of being a single parent again, charged with raising a baby. She obtained custody of Carter, and while raising her for the past six years, uses her expertise as a family law attorney to address the issues of the opioid crisis with public officials. She has served on The Pennsylvania House of Representatives Children and Youth Sub-Committee on Grandparents Raising Grandchildren, and helped pass legislation to make it easier for grandparents to seek emergency guardianship in situations where one or both parents suffer from Substance Use Disorder.  In 2017, Joanne was selected as one of Penn Live’s Newsmakers of the Year, along with two other grandmothers, for their work in assisting others after suffering the loss of their own children. Joanne serves as a Grands Voice on a committee with Generations United, a non-profit that assists families with inter-generational issues to help keep children out of the foster care system. Governor Wolf assigned Joanne to serve on the Pennsylvania Department of Aging Work Committee on grandparent raising grandchildren issues.


Now 65 years old, Joanne continues to operate her family law practice while raising now six-year-old Carter. They live in Camp Hill, Pennsylvania with their black lab, Charlie, and two cats. When Joanne isn’t busy mothering or working, you can find her in the kitchen pursuing her love of cooking.  Joanne also uses her love of humor to balance the stress in her life.  She exclaims, “I honestly don’t know how I would manage this crazy life of mine if it wasn’t for my humor!”


Joanne will bring her special brand of humor to us, and help us learn how joy can coexist with grief.  ❤️


 

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Tuscarora Inn

Enjoy the beautiful and peaceful grounds of the Inn, on the Delaware River in the foothills of the Poconos !

Welcome!

Tuscarora Inn office 

This historic Inn is brimming with Nostalgic Charm!

Quiet, private campus

Situated on 37 scenic acres on the Delaware River, this Christian retreat center provides a peaceful setting to experience God’s healing.

Enjoy nature along the Delaware River

Patio to enjoy the view with new friends 

Peaceful walking trail and lookout points

Enjoy quiet reflection along the river

Outdoor Dining Patio - Grab a Coffee & enjoy!

Entrance to Dining Hall

An old-fashioned bell will ring for meals!

Dining Hall

24-hour coffee station and water bottle filling station is in dining hall lobby.

Our Private Dining Room

Good home cooked meals  are served to us Family style! 

Riverview Manor 🏠

Our private bedrooms,  group meeting room, and cozy conversation nooks are nestled here

The Chestnut Room, our private conference room in Riverside Manor

Coffee, tea, juices, and water provided during gatherings….snacks to share are welcome! 

Hotel-style accommodations 😴

Modern and complete deluxe rooms with two  beds, private bath (with tub!), telephone, and flat screen TV!

Our private Crafting Cottage 🎨

The Pine Room is a dedicated space for our art programs and gatherings. 

Fun and Creative Activities

Choose from several options available during free time on Saturday afternoon 🎨 

Map of Grounds

We will be in Riverside l & ll  for overnight accommodations and main meeting room

Enjoy time to slow down, relax, and smell the Roses🌹

Gazebos, gazebos!

Explore the many cozy spots for reflection or conversation with a new friend

Arbor Gardens 🌸 🌺 Bring a book or journal and enjoy quiet time

Bonfire Amphitheater 🔥

Saturday night activity.… we will enjoy s’mores around the campfire! Bring along your singing voice! Instruments welcome!

Book & Gift Shop, Snack Shack 🍦

Located in the Cedar Chalet building, book shop hours are Friday 9:00pm-11:30pm,  Saturday 10:00am-5:00pm, and 9:00pm-11:30pm.  Snack shop hours Saturday 2:00-5:00pm & nights.

Shop or Peruse 📕

Treat yourself… enjoy inspirational books and  keepsakes, home decor, and gifts at the Tuscarora Inn Book & Gift Shop!

Chair Yoga 🧘‍♀️ with Tina

Start your mornings with a restorative stretch!

Recreational activities abound! 💪

Ping-pong, Anyone? 🏓  Exercise room, game room, tennis, bocci, shuffleboard, and more! Exercise Room open daily 7am-11pm

New friendships 💕

Come experience  a special Sisterhood that is certain to last a lifetime!

The Tuscarora Inn is a Christian retreat center, providing an exceptional setting to connect with God …. Quiet spaces are available for meditation, prayer, and fellowship to help heal our broken hearts. We will honor the mission of Tuscarora and hope you will find peace in God’s presence during our weekend. If your faith has been wounded, our prayer is that you will come with an open heart, be blessed, and experience the healing power of God’s love . 🙏❤️🌹

Photo Gallery from our 2022 Serenity Retreat!

Our Partners

  • Speak Up for Ben, Inc.

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